Are You Being

Too Picky

in Dating?

Here’s Our


with Gabby Aratow

Are you too picky when it comes to finding YOUR ideal partner? Well in this week’s episode, Abby chats with a fellow matchmaker, Gabby Aratow about attraction and how you could even change your “type” that you’re attracted to. They share important relationship advice for people looking for a relationship such as how to be more inclusive when dating and how to step beyond conventional beauty standards when looking for your ideal partner since online dating has made us judgmental in dating. They also go over their experiences as matchmakers and what collaboration between matchmakers looks like.

Who this Episode is Great For

This insight is valuable for people that are single and in relationships alike who want to start doing self-reflection on how they operate in relationships and how to improve on themselves. This episode is great for people that are looking to broaden their horizons and be more open-minded when dating. People recently noticed that they don’t swipe right too often. Instead, they find themselves looking through your potential matches on your dating apps and audibly saying, “No, thanks,” as you swipe left. It’s OK to not feel a connection, but for those wondering: why are you so selective in your relationships?

Links and Resources

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